As I’ve worked through my trauma, one of the common phrases that I’ve heard people say is, “You need to get over it already.”
However, there is no way to “get over” trauma.
You see…..trauma isn’t an event….
Trauma is something that happens inside of you.
Denying one’s self, the opportunity to work through the pain of a traumatic experience, will never produce a positive result.
Rejection doesn’t means that you are unloveable….
….. It simply means that the other person ran out of love to give….
It’s time that you make an honest assessment of the types of people that you associate yourself with.
Your happiness, peace of mind, and purpose are always worth fighting for.
I am fully convinced that you have everything that you need, to be all that you were created to be, at this moment in time.
Just like your mess got started with one simple step…. one simple step in the “right” direction is all you need to get started on your comeback.
Something tells me that you were created for so much more than self-inflicted pain.
The only thing that can keep you from fulfilling your purpose is your unwillingness to do the work necessary to move forward.
Pain causes us to forget who we were.
It causes us to forget our purpose.
It causes us to lose our dreams.